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God Bless America
By Jerry L. Ginther
That is how one of the old Thanksgiving Day songs begins, followed by "To Grandmother's house we go." We all learned that song as kids, sang it before the holiday in grade school, and identified with the fun of going to Grandma's house for the day or weekend. Usually, aunts, uncles and cousins we had not seen often throughout the year would be present for the traditional turkey dinner with all the trimmings. Most would arrive early and the ladies would all get busy in the kitchen to help with last minute preparations. The spirit and conversations were cheerful as everyone exchanged pleasant greetings and started to catch up on family happenings since they were last together.
The men folk would gather in the living room or family room to chat while they waited for the call to dinner. The television would not be turned on until after the meal and everyone had had time to visit. In those days, conversation ruled at family gatherings. Cousins, usually of the younger set, would either find an interesting adult conversation to listen in on or find a remote room away from the "old folks" to have one of their own. If the weather weren't too blustery they would find an outside game for entertainment.
At last we'd get the call that dinner was served. Very often grandmother's dining room table would not accommodate all present, so, additional smaller tables with folding chairs would be brought into service.
The entire house was filled with the aroma of the feast about to be served, but before we would eat, conversation was halted and a family member would lead us in prayer asking for the Lord's blessing on the family and food that had been prepared. In my grandmother's house no one picked up a fork at her table during any meal until "grace" was said and usually by her or one of us kids if we were asked to do so.
That brings to mind a Hymn of Thanksgiving that we also learned in school. The first line begins, "We Gather Together to Ask The Lord's Blessing." Being thankful was an American tradition long before it was a specific holiday. Now we have an unambiguous day set aside for such consideration in our family gatherings. Traditionally, in importance as a religious or family day, it ranks right up there with Christmas and Easter. Years ago, when our children were small, we began the practice of allowing each to name one thing for which they were especially thankful before we said our prayer. Now our grandchildren do the same when they are present here for Thanksgiving Day. I know many families that observe this tradition among the adults as well as the youngsters. In this way we remember the reason for the day.
Whatever practices or traditions are observed in your home, it is my prayer that each and everyone will have a blessed and wonderful holiday with family and/or friends.
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